How Dogs Respond to Our
Hidden Desires
Originally published in
slightly different form on July 11, 2012 at PsychologyToday.com.
“I’m picking up good vibrations...”— Brian Wilson & Mike Love
Good Vibrations
There’s no question that
dogs know when their owners aren’t feeling well, either physically or
emotionally. Dogs can even sense these things in strangers. The Beach Boys’
song, “Good Vibrations,” was inspired by something Brian Wilson’s mother told
him and his brothers Dennis and Carl when they were young. She said that dogs
can tell if someone has a good vibration or a bad one.
Years ago a friend of mine
had hip surgery, which put her in a very vulnerable state physically and
emotionally. One day, when I came to help with some errands, I brought along my
Dalmatian Freddie and one of my clients’ dogs, a blue great Dane named
Achilles. Strangely, it wasn’t Freddie (who knew my friend very well) but
Achilles who went to her and laid his chin sweetly and gingerly onto her hip,
as if to comfort her. This was an amazing thing. How could this not be a form
of empathy?
A recent scientific study out of England on “empathic-like behavior” in
dogs, by Deborah Custance and Jennifer Mayer, starts with the following
definition: “Empathy covers a range of phenomena from cognitive empathy
involving metarepresentation1 to emotional contagion stemming from
automatically triggered reflexes.”
Just to be clear,
emotional contagion is an automatically triggered reflex, but empathy is not.
True empathy—as Dr. Stanley Coren points out in his recent article—requires the
ability to put one’s self into another being’s shoes, emotionally speaking.
This requires a sense of self-and-other—a cognitive ability that doesn’t
develop in human children until they’re somewhere between 4 to 7 years old.2
If the first requirement
for empathy is a sense of self, then a small brain region called the anterior
insular cortex is a good starting point. It plays a crucial role in
self-awareness most probably because a unique type of cell—the von Economo
neuron (VEN)—is located there.3
These neurons are found in
more abundance in persons with psychiatric disorders where the patient exhibits
an exaggerated or hyper sense of self-awareness, and there are less of them in
persons whose disorders involve a lack of self-awareness.
CalTech neuroscientist
John Allman examined the role these neurons play by examining the brains of 28 primate
and 20 non-primates species, including dogs. The concentration was greatest in
humans, smaller in chimps, and still less in gorillas. None were found in dogs.
This suggests that dogs
don’t have the capacity to see themselves as separate from their environment,
from other dogs, or from their owners, which means that while they can tune
into our emotions, and do so on a daily basis, they can’t feel empathy for us
simply because they don’t perceive themselves as separate beings.
This would ostensibly mean
that when Achilles “comforted” my friend, he did it because he felt her pain on
a visceral, not a cognitive level. Does this mean he was experiencing emotional
contagion? I don’t think so. That sort of thing usually happens when a group of
protestors suddenly turn—all at once—into an angry mob, or when a group of
friends—perhaps teenage girls—have a sudden laughing fit. Achilles’ behavior
was a sweet, gentle communion with one person in pain.
How the Study Was
Done
To make sure that the dogs
would behave in a natural manner, each dog was tested in the living-room of its
own home. The owner and a stranger sat roughly two yards apart from one another
while a third person who knew very little about dogs stood in a corner,
recording the dog’s behavior on a video camera.
Each dog was exposed to
two different stimuli, coming either from the owner or the stranger: at
separate times, the owner or stranger either hummed for 20 seconds, or
pretended to cry for the same amount of time.
The result was that the dogs
were more likely to approach the person—owner or stranger—if that person was
pretending to cry than if that person was humming. And the dogs approached the
humans in a way that the observer (the one with the camera) interpreted as
being submissive rather than simply curious or distressed.
The conclusion: “There are
many different ways in which dogs could respond to an apparently distressed
human [italics mine]. They could fail to respond at all and ignore the crying
person; they could become fearful and avoidant, even approaching … for
reassurance; they could become alert and even act in a dominant manner toward
an apparently weakened individual; they could become curious or playful; or
they could approach and touch the distressed person in a gentle or submissive
manner thereby providing reassurance or comfort.”
The researchers make it
clear that their study doesn’t prove anything about empathy, or empathy-like
behavior in dogs. Yet the title of their paper states quite clearly that the
dogs were responding to “distress in humans”, not pretend distress. And
therein—I think—lies the rub.
Do Desires Have
Vibrations?
Dogs are geniuses at
detecting drugs, bombs, the locations of disaster victims, not to mention human
weakness like cancer, the onset of an epileptic attack, etc. Dogs sometimes
know their owner’s emotions better than their owners do. Achilles knew exactly
where to rest his chin—on my friend’s injured hip—even though he hadn’t been
given any information that that was the source of her pain and discomfort. I
find it implausible that dogs wouldn’t know the difference between real and
fake emotions.
In his book Your Dog Is Your Mirror, former police dog trainer Kevin Behan tells numerous
stories of riding along with police dog handlers where the cops thought a
certain person they observed on their shift seemed to be a fine upstanding
citizen, but the dog knew better; they knew that the person in question didn’t
have a “good vibration.” And in every single case the dog was right.
It seems to me that
there’s something lacking in this study on dogs. Without any information
concerning the emotional valence, if any, in the human test subjects, we can’t
say for certain what the dogs were responding to. And if the humans were only
pretending to cry, the dogs were either responding to some outward aspect of
the crying behavior (a reminder of their littermates whining perhaps?) or
something else, which I think is probably an ability to sense and tune in to an
underlying desire in the human beings involved in the study.
How could the
researcher’s desires have affected the outcome?
I think it’s because dogs
are able to tune into and synchronize their behaviors to be in alignment with
us and our unconscious (or semi-conscious) wishes.
There was another study done a few
months back where researchers brought in some detection dogs and their
handlers. In some cases the handlers were given a false location of the
substance to be detected. In others they weren’t. In the cases where the
handlers expected the dogs to go to a certain location, most dogs went to those
spots even though there was no contraband stashed there, overriding the much
more accurate information coming from their olfactory senses and their previous
training.
Why did the dogs do it?
When these dogs are working, they and their handlers have the same goal—to
detect the locations of certain objects. But in this case the dogs and handlers
had different goals. The dogs wanted to find the objects, but the handlers
thought they already knew where the objects were located, so they unconsciously
influenced the dogs to look in those very spots. And the dogs—being good,
obedient animals—did what their handlers wanted them to.
Targeting Weakness
in Prey = Comforting Humans in Distress
I have 5 dogs in day care
today. To test this idea that dogs will act in an empathic or empathic-like
manner, I pretended to cry.
The dogs all woke up and
came over to me. Oscar, who’s the newest member of the group, seemed
distressed. He wanted me to comfort him. Fancy, who barks when she’s nervous,
barked. Caleb, a hunting dog, brought me a toy. Samba, an excitable Jack-a-poo,
whined, wiggled, and jumped in the air. And Bailey, who’s an older dog (with an
old soul) just looked at me with weary eyes. They’re all very attached to me,
and not a single one of them seemed interested in comforting me.
Since my belief is that
dogs don’t respond to fake distress in their owners, that’s the result I got
with these 5 dogs; that’s what the dogs fetched me. And since Custance &
Mayer seem to believe that dogs wouldn’t be able to differentiate between fake
crying and real distress, that’s what they got.
Dogs are the most
adaptable, the most social, and the most trainable land mammal not because of
their mental capacities, but because they have a greater capacity to be
in-synch emotionally with one another and with us. This capacity comes directly
from wolves, who are able to tune into weaknesses in prey animals and
capitalize on them. If wolves didn’t have this ability they would have surely
died out.
Dogs inherited this
ability and started using it on us, manipulating us into “domesticating” them.
Over the years they developed a deeper and stronger ability to tune into our
emotional states. It’s what enables them to work for us and, quite often, to
comfort us when we’re not feeling well. It’s not empathy. And it’s
not emotional contagion. I think it’s more like a sixth sense, an ability to
tune in to our emotional vibrations.
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Footnotes:
1) Metarepresentation
involves the process of consciously thinking about one’s own thoughts and
feelings, as well as being able to imagine the possible thoughts and feelings
of others.
2) Piaget said that a
child’s ability to take another being’s perspective started around the age of
7. More recent studies suggest that this may happen as early as 4 – 5 years of
age.
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